engaging

Another fucking engagement on my timeline. 

And I don't think I have said, but I'm not mad at these people for being engaged. I'm a little jealous but I'm more hurt behind the ending of my situationship.

It's just reminder after reminder that I'm single and I always have been. And meeting the right person never guarantees anything.

She doesn't want security with me. 

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